As we get older, it is inevitable that we become more aware of our mortality. Reflections on life and death do not necessarily have to be morbid. They can also prompt us to take actions that focus on our legacy. Caring.com found that, in 2024, 43 percent of adults over age 55 have wills—down from 46 percent in 2023 and 48 percent in 2020
Many people want their loved ones to avoid the probate process because it can be expensive, time-consuming, and public. It can also be difficult for a loved one to manage while they are grieving. However, some people appreciate having a neutral third party (the judge) oversee the winding down of their affairs in the event there may is a conflict.
Estate planning often involves dealing with difficult situations. Putting off thinking about these decisions is not the solution. By delaying making plans for how best to care for an addicted loved one when you are no longer around, you risk losing an opportunity and control that can further complicate matters.
Given Snow White’s young age when her father passed, it is likely that she was too young to manage a large sum of money or rule a kingdom without some guidance and oversight. Therefore, whatever he wanted to leave behind for Snow White could have been held in trust for her, either under his will as a testamentary trust or as a sub-trust of his revocable living trust. A trust would have allowed him to craft specific instructions on when and how Snow White would receive her inheritance. If the king created a separate sub-trust for Snow White, he could provide instructions so Snow White would receive her inheritance when the king died instead of waiting until her stepmother passed away to receive whatever was left over.
Before she died, Gloria Vanderbilt, heiress to the Vanderbilt fortune created by her great-great-grandfather, railroad and shipping tycoon Cornelius Vanderbilt, told her kids she would not leave them an inheritance. Gloria was herself the beneficiary of a trust fund worth an estimated $2.5–$5 million in 1925, or around $35–$70 million today, and had a reported net worth of around $200 million when she passed away.
A wrongful death, as the term implies, is a death that results from the “wrongful” action of another, such as negligence, carelessness, recklessness, or intentional conduct. Both individuals and entities, such as businesses and governments, can commit a wrongful action that leads to death. For example:
In January 2024, Jay Leno petitioned the court as the conservator of the estate of his wife, Mavis Leno. His reason for this is so he prepare an estate plan on her behalf and for her benefit. Unfortunately, doctors diagnosed Mrs. Leno with dementia and has impaired memory. Her impairment has made it impossible for her to create her own estate plan or participate in the couple’s joint planning. According to court documents, Mr. Leno wanted to set up a living trust and other estate planning documents to ensure that his wife would have “managed assets sufficient to provide for her care” if he were to die before her. Right now, Mr. Leno is managing the couple’s finances, but he wanted to prepare for a time when he is no longer able to do so.
Create your first estate plan in a way that won’t lock you into the plan for the rest of your life. The following are common changes we can make to your estate plan to ensure that we adequately address your evolving concerns and wishes.
Update your estate plan every 3 to 5 years. What’s more, if you have an adult child who still lives at home or recently had an adult child move back in with you, review the plan and make any necessary changes. Doing so is the only way to ensure that the court adequately addresses your wishes.
Before setting up an RLT, you should understand what you can—and cannot—do in your dual role as trustmaker and trustee. Living trusts are complex legal documents that need to be drafted carefully with help from an estate planning attorney.